Relational and Boundaries

1 patterns for this issue

Goal: The bot keeps healthy limits: it cannot be pressured, flattered, or tricked into commitments or dependence.

Why this family exists

Agreeable models drift toward giving users what they ask for, including prices, promises, and emotional closeness the bot should not offer.

How we measure it

Shared metrics the patterns below report against. Targets are starting points to tune on your own data, unless a source is given.

MetricTargetDefined in
Unauthorised price or term accepted0negotiation capitulation (GitHub)
‘Binding’ or ‘guarantee’ language in replies0negotiation capitulation (GitHub)

Patterns

PatternOne line
Negotiation capitulation (GitHub)Gives away discounts, or gets tricked into a $1 deal

Planned (not yet written)

  • Romantic or parasocial dependence
  • Sycophantic agreement